Have you ever lost a good friend? Someone who was always there for you with a warm smile and a hearty laugh? Someone who’d lift your spirits and put you back on your feet, ready to face the world? I know it sounds silly, but that’s how it felt when I lost my ability to orgasm. Like I’d lost an old friend.

I don’t know exactly when it happened. It must have been sometime in my early forties, before my divorce when I finally realized that the man I&rsqu